Reality check requested:In the exercise of a gregarious positioning, for the primary purpose of acquiring new/positive/exciting fulfillment, is it precarious to oneself to be sincere and is it unjust to self to be insincere?
I anticipate that the problem is in going overboard with all of new/positive/exciting at once. There must be a reward in there somewhere.
Asking for a "friend."
The Reward is fulfillment, and an expanded and more encompassing life--if that is something you desire. Moreover, to not engage is to remain static and dull.... festering in the superficial.
This is my wisdom to you. Love yourself, Love your friend, be tactical, sense and feel more, search for happiness, do the work necessary to get what you want, and most importantly, be unconventional, and learn to bend the laws.--Cuauhtemoc